Peace Reconciliation Form Please answer the questions below. Click the orange “Submit” button after you are finished. Name * First Name Last Name Email * What words come to mind when considering your relationship with [family member]? When did you first notice difficulties arising in the relationship? What happened? What have been the significant sources of conflict/hardship in the relationship? Please read the following versions of Matthew 7:4-5 before answering the following questions: From the NIV: How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. From The Passion Translation: Refuse to be a critic full of bias toward others, and you will not be judged. For you’ll be judged by the same standard that you’ve used to judge others. The measurement you use on them will be used on you. Why would you focus on the flaw in someone else’s life and fail to notice the glaring flaws of your own? How could you say to your friend, ‘Let me show you where you’re wrong,’ when you’re guilty of even more? You’re being hypercritical and a hypocrite! First acknowledge and deal with your own ‘blind spots,’ and then you’ll be capable of dealing with the ‘blind spot’ of your friend. What role do you think you have played in the relationship breakdown? How have the issues in this relationship affected you emotionally? What are the core misunderstandings or differences that need to be addressed? What positive memories or aspects of the relationship would you like restored? What does the other person need to understand about your perspective or experience? What do you hope will change in the relationship due to this reconciliation process? What do you need from the other person to feel able to move forward? Thank you!